2 January 2023, by Sherri Mastrangelo
When looking for marriage records, you’ll assume the marriage took place in your ancestor’s place of residence, or the hometown of the bride. But what happens when you’ve exhausted your search and still can’t find any records? Where did your ancestors go to get married, and why? How do you know where to look?
The answer might have something to do with “Gretna Greens”, the term for a well-known place for out-of-town wedding destinations.
The phrase came into use after the Scottish village Gretna Green became a popular wedding sanctuary for England’s youth in the 18th century. “Located on the old coaching route between London and Edinburgh, Gretna Green was the first village reached once you entered Scotland. After Lord Hardwick's marriage act in 1754 outlawed marriage in England without paternal consent before the age of 21, young couples started to elope 'over the border' to Gretna Green, where they could be married at 16 years of age.” (- The Gretna Wedding Bureau).
Furthermore the GWB shares “many an infamous 'chase' has taken place along that old coaching route to Gretna Green, and there are many legendary tales of furious fathers in pursuit throughout the night, always reaching Gretna Green just a little too late. The residents of the small village of Gretna Green were well know for helping run-away couples and many an inn and watering station along the route could be counted on to, 'accidentally' delay any pursuers, allowing the couples to safely reach Gretna Green.” (- The Gretna Wedding Bureau)
In the 18th through 20th centuries, certain locations in the United States became known as “Gretna Greens”, if not in name then in spirit, as these popular wedding destinations usually offered less marriage restrictions to those hoping to tie the knot. Not all who traveled to these places where under age (though it was often the case). Perhaps they were looking to avoid parental consent requirements, for less of a waiting period, for lower fees for a license, or to avoid health test requirements and medical examinations. Perhaps they came from a dry town and wanted to serve alcohol at the reception. Or perhaps they just wanted a popular and romantic wedding destination.
Whatever the case may be for their travels, discovering where the popular “marriage mills” were near your ancestors’ homes might help you narrow down your search. When determining your research plan, consider the ages of your bride and groom and the marriage laws within the state, as well as nearby states. Did they need a quick marriage for any reason? Was there a birth shortly after the wedding, or at a young age? Also look if they had family in neighboring states, or reasons to travel.
Once you have some idea where to look, check the free (with registration) records at FamilySearch.org, searching the catalog by county for marriage records during your time frame.
Gretna Greens across the US may lie just over the state border, or just over the Canadian or Mexican border. They might be military posts, or towns along the rivers, or along the railroad stops. They may have been near popular honeymoon locations, like Niagara Falls.
In the below list of known marriage mill locations within the US, keep in mind each may have been popular at different times, depending on state laws. Also be aware of county borders and changes over time.
Arizona:
Yuma (Yuma County)
Salome (La Paz)
Arkansas
Texarkana (Miller County)
Marion (Crittenden County)
Connecticut
Groton (New London)
Thompson (Windham)
Delaware
Wilmington (Delaware County)
Georgia
Rome (Floyd)
Rossville (Walker County)
Idaho
Bear Lake County
Coeur d’Alene (Kootenai County)
Payette (Payette)
Weiser (Washington)
Illinois
Chicago (Cook County)
Indiana
Angola (Steuben County)
Crown Point (Lake County)
Evansville (Vanderburgh County)
Floyd County
Jeffersonville (Clark County)
Lawrenceburg (Dearborn County)
Valparaiso (Porter County)
Iowa
Keokuk (Lee County)
Nashua (Chickasaw County)
Kansas
Bellevue (Johnson County)
Kentucky
Ashtabula County
Greenup County
Maysville (Mason)
Pike County
Louisiana
Gretna (Jefferson Parish)
Maryland
Elkton (Cecil County)
Chestertown (Kent County)
Garrett County
Hartford County
Howard County
Rockville (Montgomery County)
Westminister (Carroll County)
Massachusetts
Lowell (Middlesex)
Michigan
Port Huron (St. Clair County)
St. Joseph (Berrien County)
Minnesota
Moorhead (Clay County)
Waukegan (Lake County)
Winona County
Mississippi
Alcorn County
DeSoto County
Tishomingo County
Missouri
Liberty (Clay County)
Nebraska
Omaha (Douglas County)
Nevada
Las Vegas (Clark)
Reno (Washoe)
Wendover (Elko)
West Wendover (Elko)
Winnemucca (Humboldt)
New Hampshire
Seabrook (Rockingham County)
New Mexico
Curry County
Raton (Colfax)
New York
Buffalo (Eirie County)
Crown Point (Essex County)
Kings County
New York City
Niagara Falls (Niagara County)
Ogdensburg (St. Lawrence)
North Carolina
Mount Airy (Surry)
Ohio
Aberdeen (Brown)
Bowling Green (Wood County)
Cincinnati (Hamilton)
Oklahoma
Love County
Bryan County
Pennsylvania
Media (Delaware County)
Pittsburgh (Allegheny)
Reading (Berks)
Washington County
Tennessee
Gatlinburg (Sevier County)
Roane County
Texas
Liberty County
Orange County
Fort Bend County
Utah
Farmington (Davis)
Virginia
Alexandria (Fairfax)
Frederiksburg
Manassas (Prince William)
Warrenton (Fauquier County)
Winchester (Frederick County)
Washington
Port Orchard (Kitsap)
Clark County
Skamania County
West Virginia
Point Pleasant (Mason)
Wellsburg (Brooke County)
West Alexander (Washington)
Wheeling (Ohio County)
Wyoming
Evanstan (Uinta County)
Have any more to add to the list? Please share via comments or email.
Sources & More Information:
“Gretna Greens in the United States” FamilySearch (https://www.familysearch.org/en/wiki/Gretna_Greens_in_the_United_States)
The Gretna Wedding Bureau (https://gretnaweddings.co.uk/about_gretna.html)
August, Melissa. “How One Small Maryland Town Became the Marriage Capital of the East Coast in the Early 20th Century” Time. 11 February 2021. (https://time.com/5938395/elkton-maryland-marriage-capital-east-coast/)
Lyle. “Crown Point, Indiana: Chicago’s Gretna Green” Chicago Public Library. 10 February, 2015. (https://www.chipublib.org/blogs/post/crown-point-indiana-chicagos-gretna-green/)
Mitchell, Dawn. “Indiana was a scandalous marriage mill and Valentino took advantage” IndyStar. 4 July 2019.(https://www.indystar.com/story/news/history/retroindy/2019/07/04/indiana-scandalous-marriage-mill-and-valentino-took-advantage-gretna-green-weddings/1621342001/)
Stateside Staff, Michigan Radio. “100 years ago, Michigan was the place for a 30-second wedding” 27 June 2018. (https://www.michiganradio.org/families-community/2018-06-27/100-years-ago-michigan-was-the-place-to-go-for-a-30-second-wedding)
Toler, John. “Recalling Warrenton’s Days as a Marriage Mill” Fauquier Times. 10 March 2017. (https://www.fauquier.com/news/recalling-warrenton-s-days-as-a-marriage-mill/article_430dd13e-0548-11e7-a179-2bd2de898de1.html)
Towne, Douglas. “The Best Little Hitchin’ Post in Arizona” 23 January 2020. Phoenix. (https://www.phoenixmag.com/2020/01/23/the-best-little-hitchin-post-in-arizona/)
Webster, Nancy Coltune. “Crown Point became destination for quickie weddings” Chicago Tribune. 10 Jun 2016. (https://www.chicagotribune.com/suburbs/post-tribune/ct-ptb-bicentennial-marriage-mill-st-0612-20160610-story.html)
Wilkinson, Heather. “New England’s Gretna Green: Why so many out of state marriages in Seabrook, New Hampshire?” Nutfield Genealogy. 2 April 2015. (https://nutfieldgenealogy.blogspot.com/2015/04/new-englands-gretna-green-why-so-many.html)